make amends
US /mek əˈmɛndz/
・UK /meik əˈmendz/
A1 初級
v.t./i.動詞 (及物/不及物)賠罪
He wanted to make amends for his behavior.
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創傷者常做的7件事！你中了幾項？ (7 Common Things People with Trauma Do)
- A person with trauma may always feel at fault for any misfortune that happens and will try to make amends with you to avoid your rejection or ridicule.
有心理創傷的人可能總是覺得自己對發生的任何不幸都有過錯，並會試圖向你賠禮道歉，以避免你的拒絕或嘲笑。
- A person with trauma may always feel at fault for any misfortune that happens and will try to make amends with you to avoid your rejection or ridicule, even if you wouldn't react that way.
有精神創傷的人可能會變得比較脆弱，容易激動，情緒波動大。
傲慢與偏見 - 最浪漫的場景！ (Pride & Prejudice - Most Romantic Scenes)
- How could I ever make amends for such behavior.
我怎麼能彌補這樣的行為。
- How can I ever make amends for such behaviour?
在妳為 Lydia，而且我猜也為 Jane 所做的一切之後，應該是我來彌補。
10大爆紅明星被捕事件！ (10 Celebrity Arrests That Went VIRAL)
- Osment has since apologized and promised to make amends, saying he's been going through a rough few months since his house burned down in a wildfire.
Osment 從此道歉並承諾彌補，表示自從他的房子在一場野火中燒毀後，他經歷了一段艱難的幾個月。
- Osment has since apologized and promised to make amends, saying he's been going through a rough few months since his house burned down in a wildfire.
他在漫威電影宇宙中的角色「征服者康」，原本將成為該系列的重要人物。
百事可樂廣告 - 經典教父級！百事可樂 vs. 可口可樂 誰能稱霸？ (Pepsi Commercial - Godfather pepsi vs coca cola)
- For being a civilized person, I'd like to give you a chance to make amends.
現在你侮辱我和我的整個家庭 通過提供給我這個，這個，不管這個是什麼... ...
- but me being a cililized person, I want to give you a chance to make ...amends. Chapish?
但我是一個纖細的人，我想給你一個機會來彌補......。Chapish?
6 個「毒性羞恥」的警訊，跟健康羞恥大不同！ (6 Signs of TOXIC Shame, NOT Healthy Shame)
- For example, if you miss a meeting, healthy shame helps you acknowledge this mistake, apologize, and make amends.
例如，如果你錯過了一次會議，健康的羞恥感會幫助你承認錯誤、道歉並做出補償。
- For example, if you miss a meeting, healthy shame helps you acknowledge this mistake, apologize, and make amends.
例如，如果你錯過了一次會議，健康的羞恥感會幫助你承認錯誤、道歉並做出補償。
信主後罪惡感降低？研究發現：神的原諒竟讓人「不愛道歉」！ (Feeling forgiven by God can reduce the likelihood of apologizing, study finds)
- This suggests that when an individual believes they're already forgiven by God, they may feel less need to seek forgiveness or make amends directly with the person that they've harmed.
這表明，當一個人相信自己已經得到了上帝的寬恕時，他可能會覺得不太需要尋求寬恕或直接向曾經傷害過自己的人做出補償。
- This suggests that when an individual believes they're already forgiven by God, they may feel less need to seek forgiveness or make amends directly with the person that they've harmed.
說得太對了，閨蜜。
為什麼我們總是離不開傷害我們的人？💔 (Why We Can't Stop Loving Those Who Hurt Us)
- But for others among us, this is when we begin to show our distinctive colours. Hope springs eternal. Yes, the partner may presently be somewhat disappointing, but soon they may recover. Admittedly, they have become hugely unkind in many ways, but they did apologise nicely last week, before repeating their offence, and so there is a decent chance, we believe, that things will be on an upswing over the longer term. To outside observers, the faith that we have in our partner can appear quasi-religious. Why do we keep giving our unreliable companion so much leeway? Why do we hope against hope? Why don't we cut our losses right now and leave? Why are we so convinced that with just a little more effort on our part, one more discussion, one more long email sent in the early hours, everything will alter? Furthermore, perhaps why do we keep assuming that we have done something wrong and that it is primarily our role to apologise and make amends? The explanation is that we grew into hopeful people not by choice, but of necessity. We almost certainly spent our childhoods in circumstances where we had no option but to become enormous believers in our parents and, simultaneously, enormous doubters of ourselves. When little, we couldn't afford to think that our parents were simply disappointing, wounded people with whom we shouldn't interact too much and then walk away. We were four years old. So we did what children of unfulfilling parents always do. We started to think ill of ourselves. We developed a genius for wondering what was wrong with us and for assembling complicated and overly generous explanations for the bad behaviour of others. We evolved an expectant stance towards whatever morsel of love our parent might throw our way. We became excited by deprivation. All day they might have been ill-tempered and cruel to us. Perhaps at nightfall, they might say something sweet and ruffle our hair. This became the most exciting and appalling game of our lives. As adults, we continue to be addicted to this tension. It has come to seem that this is what love is, the pain-tinged, continuous expectation that an unfulfilling person might abruptly turn round and be nice to us again. Love is waiting for someone who was once slightly kind to resume their interest. It doesn't strike us that love might actually be something quite different, simpler and less tortured. An ongoing, reliable exchange of mutually respectful sympathy and gentleness. And if it's not this, that we should leave at once. Indeed, if we have the troubled fortune to meet a reliable soul, we will probably respond to them with a feeling of nausea and bewilderment and flee in short order. Perhaps back to the last unfulfilling partner. The toll we pay in terms of wasted years is lamentable. Whereas others among us can enjoy calm, kindly relationships, we will get locked into exhausting scenarios with perturbed individuals who very subtly mess us around, who say one thing and do another, who don't give us physical affection or blow hot and cold, who may be having affairs and keep promising to change and don't. And the worst is that for all our suffering, this somehow excites us, this keeps us on our toes, this feels like what we need to keep doing. We know nothing else. We have to start to believe what our childhoods never allowed us to think. Some people need to be given up on. Certain seemingly ordinary and good people are in fact very damaged and will hurt and bully those around them. Some people with a few lovely qualities to them will, considered in the round, work an entirely negative effect on our lives. It's not our role to keep second-guessing unfulfilling people, to spin elaborate stories as to why they may be doing what they do.
但對於我們中的其他人來說，這正是我們開始展現自己獨特色彩的時候。希望永存。是的，伴侶目前可能有些令人失望，但很快他們就會恢復過來。誠然，他們在很多方面都變得非常不近人情，但他們上週在重犯之前確實很好道地了歉，所以我們相信，從長遠來看，事情會有好轉的可能。在外人看來，我們對伴侶的信任似乎近乎宗教。為什麼我們總是給我們不可靠的伴侶這麼大的迴旋餘地？為什麼我們不抱希望？為什麼我們不馬上減少損失並離開？為什麼我們如此堅信，只要我們再努力一點，再討論一次，再在凌晨時分發一封長長的電子郵件，一切都會改變？此外，也許為
- Furthermore, perhaps why do we keep assuming that we have done something wrong and that it is primarily our role to apologise and make amends?
